It looks and sounds unhealthy and unacceptable. Plan your exit and be gone. Good luck

I had to edit to add that he sounds like my dad. I love my dad but he is very unhealthy man who made my moms life he$$ and contributed to my not so good choice of men. Some behaviors you described are very much like my dad. I felt goose bumps reading. My dad mellowed and improved with age but the damage is done and my mom wishes she left years ago.

Do not marry or have children with this man. They will grow up thinking it is normal and seek the same in their own lives.

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