I work (and it takes everything I have everyday just to manage it....so I just crash when I get home)....but my ex-husband is physically disabled (we live together so I can take care of him --- that is a whole other discussion )
but he is very isolated and has nothing to do...only ever watches tv or sits on front porch. And, I am usually too wiped out physically......or too busy trying to manage my own issues....that I don't even try to find things to do with him, etc.

Anyway, I am watching this thread to see if I can come up with some ideas for us, as well. Unfortunately, we live in a very rural area with minimal resources and activities available..

Thanks for the thread, lunatic, hope you get some ideas too!