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Originally Posted by Soccer mom
Maybe you're having a hard time because you wanted more from the relationship than it could offer. Maybe it's not really about your T. personally but more about wanting a relationship that you couldn't have and maybe feeling rejected? I constantly want more than I have with my T. It's very hard but I"m learning a lot about myself and how it affects other relationships.
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that's definitely a part of it, and I know I also miss the way he would compliment my writing, the way my mind works, and he would describe me as 'highly intelligent' and I think I missed out on that kind of encouragement as a child, or indeed in my adult relationships.
That's not the only thing I miss, but it is hard to have had that so briefly in my life and then not to have it anymore.