I'm actually surprised, because I did think (or was hoping) I was over-reacting. I can see from the overwhelming response that I was not.

We do not live together, I am completely independent. I otherwise have a healthy life, with a supportive family, good job and good friends. So I am going to take care of myself first and enjoy my life. I'm going to stand my ground on what I think is right and he can join me if he wants to discuss things and be an adult. If he's going to be immature, then it's done.

I had no idea how much of a problem this was. Thank you everyone for the perspective. I think I will seek help for myself actually, to learn about myself and this situation so it doesn't happen again with him or with another partner.

In all honesty, I feel scared at the moment that I have let myself get into a bad situation. But I definitely do not have to stay here.

Thanks again for all the responses, and I will check back to see if there are any more. But I feel much better in knowing that I am not over-reacting.

- Allie