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Old Jun 19, 2015, 01:37 PM
musinglizzy musinglizzy is offline
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Have you brought up a subject in T and then realized you weren't strong enough and want to avoid and further discussion of the issue?? How does T respond?
YES. It sort of just slipped out.... she continues to bring it up, saying she's patiently waiting for me to feel ready to talk about it. She's going to be waiting a long time! Because it was a slip of the tongue, and I have no intentions of talking to her about it. I said it in frustration, and I regret dangling that carrot in front of her nose. She brought it up again yesterday. But I've learned to get a better handle on what comes out of my mouth.
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