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Old Jun 19, 2015, 02:36 PM
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Yup. I was scammed out of very large sum of money. It happened this past winter when my t was out of town for almost a month. I of course told her as soon as she was back but I said I don't want to discuss details, just a general idea. She said "it's ok, no need to share something you don't want to". That was the end of it. Sharing details isn't really helpful or needed at this point. I moved on.

The only people I shared all of the details were police officer, and my brother. Also in written in FBI report. I did need to tell someone every detail and I think if I didn't it would hunt me worse. And that's good enough. If I ever feel I need to revisit it I would tell my t but no need right now.

We do revisit topic of me being scammed as it is related to other changes in my life such as having to work two jobs and unable to travel or even take vacation this year. But we never discuss details of it since I said I don't want to share details

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