My T is very pushy. For example she wants me to go volunteer at the local library. I've said multiple times that I don't think that's a good idea for a good reason, and she writes down 'I'm afraid to go and volunteer at the library' and continues to push. She's after me to meet up with a friend in the week in which both she and my parents are on holiday and asks me every session if I've had contact with her and planned a meet-up yet and tells me to do so ASAP even though I've told her multiple times it's not as easy as that (my friend is also mentally ill and is about to enter a residential facility for at least six months. I know her better than my T does and I know what I can do to help her and what not. T doesn't accept (respect?) that.). She continues to push.

Is this normal?