Hmm. I have no problems asking where is t going on vacation. None whatsoever. I would not ask anything too intimate but we often chat about mundane stuff. We both love to travel so topics of travel comes up a lot. I generally like to ask people about travels ( like to get ideas and opinions on places)

I am not attached or have intense relationship with t, yet I can ask whatever the heck I want ( of course appropriate).

I thought it should be the other way around. If you have such close relationship and are attached you should be able to ask and if you are kind of neutral then you wouldn't ask?

Why is it the other way around?

I had to edit to add that I would be very concerned if relationship with t was my closest and the most open relationship. It would bother me. I don't think it should be.

Would you want to change that? I send you my best wishes

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