I may be confusing you with someone else, but if you feel stuck with your husband so you go to therapy, then you feel stuck with your therapist - the problem is probably not your therapist nor your husband, but that when things get unpleasant, you say, "well im stuck, watcha gonna do, i dont want things to get worse than they already are." That makes sense to me about the husband, cuz if you have like kids and stuff, you do have to take things into consideration. But with a t - i think they are more interchangeable or exchangeable than h's.

Altho i must admit, ive kept some of my ts longer than i kept my h's. But dont count that! but seriously, what is that pattern of feeling stuck about? What small things can or do you succeed at, that show you that you can unstick yourself from bigger stuff?