My ex-T was very pushy. When I told her about my concerns, she dismissed them because the potential risks I exposed never materialized with her patients.
Sure enough, they materialized with me ! I had major flashbacks I didn't have in years.
She was dumbfounded, but she couldn't stop being pushy. She then pushed me to ask an AD to my pdoc. Nope.
Needless to say, I left her. No need for an AD, thank you very much !
If being pushy can work with some patients, it can make much more harm than good for other patients.