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Originally Posted by Soccer mom
Have you been talking to my T? She does that a lot and it IS painful. She will say somethign that hurts and then remind me that it's reality and compare it to other life situations. But, I do find that it pushes me along more than if I had her sympathy. OMG - I can't believe I just wrote that last sentence. 
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My pdoc has done this with me too. Especially a few years back when I was particularly stuck. Sometimes he was harsher than I'd have liked, but it served a purpose. It hurt but ultimately pushed me in a direction that was better for me and I was glad for it.