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thoughts and prayers are with you and tony to work this out, i know its just a misunderstanding gone out of control. dont leave your home, kids, memories, stay and make him work this out with you, you have 20 yrs vested, i think its worth fighting for.
IMO, i dont think going to Mums is a good idea either
love to you and hang in there,
xoxox Vanessa