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Old Jun 20, 2015, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted by hankster View Post
I would ask if you get like this about new love interests? Cuz i think this just shows a person has abandonment issues. The therapist doesnt CAUSE them, the person had them going in. Like going to a medical doctor doesnt cause diabetes or a broken leg. Altho it might cause high blood pressure. But i think thats the exception that proves the rule
I agree most of this comes from abandonment issues. I have and sometimes do feel this way but I think I would with any T I get attached to. I did feel that way with boyfriends I didn't trust. I never did with my husband who I completely trust. Hmmm so I guess for me it's an insecurity issue that has to be dealt with vs finding another T. Because this could happen again.