It is really sad that she didn't work to repair the rupture. From what you said, it sounds like she is over-sensitive, which isn't good for you. I remember bringing my therapist some things I read. Things that I thought would be helpful to me. It would have been easy for her to think I was trying to tell her how to do her job. She did not get offended. She was always very patient and kind about it. She has always told me that it is *my* therapy and she wants to know if there's anything she does or says that is unhelpful.