Thank you all forr the comments.

I guess I've not looked at some things as rape b/c it was sorta acted on the person. I mean in shows you see a person screaming or resisting, so I thought that violence without resisting isnt rape. I understand it may be semantics for many of you... it just has some meaning for me.

I mean violence with sex involved but you dont resist. is that rape? It sounds like you are saying yes if its a child. Sorry for asking all the questions. I'm not sure why its important to me right now. Thank you for your answers.