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Originally Posted by hankster
I am kind of shocked - i know, right? - that she was SOOOO available sooooo early in your work together. Its like the illusion of closeness it provided obscured the fact that a strong foundation was not being built. Now youre left with this shaky foundation which she refuses to acknowledge in any way. ??
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That'd what struck me about Lizzy's story. My T does many of the things she spoke of and other things people would think are even weirder. But it was a slow process getting there. Nearly a year before we hugged for the first time. Almost 2.5 years in the first time she held me. 2 years in the first time she texted me for non scheduling purposes. Every thing happened slowly when I was ready/able to ask for it meaning the trust was already built.
It's ime Lizzy's T did it backwards. .