Same thing happened to me except I had already met her in person and developed a connection. But she was very shady over text and never followed through with calling. She said she wanted to meet up one weekend. So I drove 12 HOURS to see her (I live far away from her), spent about 500 bucks, and was so excited to finally be close to her again.

That morning, when I showed up at the hotel, I text her and gave the address. She never text me back and never showed up. I was completely devastated and disappointed. It really screwed me up.

I only said something to her once and that was a few months later. All I said was that she really hurt me by standing me up. She never even apologized. Oh well. Happens to everyone but it's good to vent.