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Originally Posted by pugs1986
Now I'm starting to second guess if I should stop by her house tomorrow... it's only been a few days since we talked.. is it too soon? I'm afraid she's going to react in a bad way. I've been thinking too much about this and it's giving me anxiety now.
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Then go with the option of calling her by phone. Tell her you've been concerned and wonder would she like a visit. This way you're not pushing yourself on her. If she indicates she's not up to receiving you, you can respect that, yet tell her you'll check in with her next week. This way she knows you are thinking about her and will get back to her. It gives her something to look forward to and reassurance that you are not giving up on her.
Being with her family makes her situation less dangerous than if she were holed up all alone.
By telephoning her, you give her more control over the interaction.