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Old Jun 20, 2015, 09:18 PM
musinglizzy musinglizzy is offline
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Originally Posted by precaryous View Post
From what I've read about your situation...it wasn't necessary for your T to act this way...take touch away and not discuss it until you caught it and brought it up. It sounds pretty cruel, to me.
Thanks. It was the decision she made not to talk to me about it that has me losing my mind now. Even though I've talked to her about it, I really didn't get any satisfaction, and I always worry if something feels a little "off," is she changing something else? I'm hypersensitive about it. Since she didn't talk to me about it that time, why would she discuss any changes to her boundaries now? She knows that all of this could have been avoided if she would have talked to me about it, without waiting for me to notice and bring it up myself. It's obvious I wasn't counting on it all the time, I see her twice a week and it took just shy of a month for me to really notice that she wasn't doing that anymore. She told me she gradually tapered off. No, she didn't. I was keeping a therapy journal at the time, and actually have it written in there when she ended up doing that. Three sessions in a row she did that (which was unusual), and after the third session, she never left her chair. That was in February.
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