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Originally Posted by Echos Myron
If you do have one more session, be mindful that he will likely adopt more manipulative tactics to persuade you to stay or convince you he hasn't behaved unethically. Chances are if he realises you are leaving he will worry you might report him and try to cover his *****. Don't be drawn back in.
I agree with others who say you are unlikely to be the first client he has done this to. You are very brave to walk away. It takes tremendous self respect and courage to realise what is going on and remove yourself from a potentially abusive situation. You're doing the right thing  |
actually although he's done huge mistakes in his relationship with me, I still can't see him as villain. cause he himself taught me to be kinder, more forgiving and patient towards others. try to give them more love, etc... of course an abuser wouldn't try to teach me such things. I just wrote the bad parts abt him here so no one can see him as a whole person here. and he has reached a special point in my life for himself for all he taught me, I guess he knows that I like him and wont report him.
but after all I see his mistakes, and inability to control himself against me and manage the sessions in appropriate ways. he hasn't considered my emotions and reactions against what he says and "too much love". I'll just quit not to bother myself anymore and protect me. but of course It's soo sad for me to lose someone that had become special for me and more important lose my trust in someone I wanted to trust the most. I cant rely on people easily any more (I've had similare situation before, its not the first time)
thanks for ur support
