hi luksa
it is really hard to say much with so little information but what you do say is "whenever things get serious" and "after a few weeks". For things to get serious after only a few weeks is way to fast so maybe that is why you are getting scared. Take it slower. Things dont have to get serious for months. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome