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Old Jun 21, 2015, 12:44 PM
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Were you able to gauge his response at all or too flipped? Being mad at you would be an "easy" response and way to avoid helping you with your worries. Can you apologize to him for flipping out and ask him if the two of you can discuss the situation calmly? Tell him you would like his help managing and getting over your insecurities. Asking someone for their help; the only person who would turn that request down would be someone who could not or was not willing to help.

The old joke is no less true: Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean people aren't out to get you.
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