I have been apart from my ex-fiance for 2 years. Since I didn't know where she was living I tried reaching her sister. But got no response. I would send a letter every few months. Still no response.
So then a year ago I called her brother. He was sympathetic and said that "she probably wants to move on, but maybe there will be a chance later." He did not tell me where she was and I didn't ask.

I backed off for awhile, but I did try reaching her again months later by a letter to her sister (thinking she might be living there with her). No response.

About 6 months ago I texted her brothers wife (thinking it was him) by mistake. She quickly told me angrily " not to contact anyone in the family or I would be reported as harassment.

I don't believe I have been harassing anyone. I have only sent a handful of letters over the 2 1/2 years, trying but never hearing anything from her. Only from her brother (who was sympathetic) and sister in law (angry).

I know I should let it be but I never got closure. Since I haven't heard from her I don't know how she Really feels.

When she left she had abandoned me and all her friends here and her cat. I know where she is now and I'm thinking about chancing what could happen and contact her by letter... Leaving her relatives out of the picture.... Thoughts anyone

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