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Ah ha, I think you've hit the nail on the head in one sentence ~ your co~habitat is somewhat chubby herself AND is prone to yo yo dieting!!! That's probably the answer, she's suffering from insequirity and control issues. 'Tis YOU who's a threat to her, or that's the way she feels, thus she puts you down at any given opportunity. I honestly don't think she can help herself and I'm not "sticking up" for her in any way, just trying to shed some light on things. I know it's very difficult to simply move out when there are money issues, it would be better to stay and find some common ground. PLEASE try to ignore her, agree with her and then just continue to do your own thing. The most important thing here is that YOU stay well, even though you've lost some weight, just try not to loose anymore hunny. You can always come here for support, I for one absolutely WILL support you, as will any
Community liaison team member. I have huge issues with foods and eating, or I should say not eating, HUGS, xxxx
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