PS I think it's wise to be very careful in trusting a therapist. There are many caring and compassionate therapists out there, but not all of them are. Some may become "bored" after years and change from appearing caring to being abusive, like one I saw. I have to believe that I was exceptionally unlucky with the "care" provider I saw. In time, hopefully you are "wiser" than I was, and you'll know for yourself if this service provider deserves your trust, and for you to be open with them always remember they are providing a service and should never be judgemental. It takes a long time to trust for some people (obviously). My apologies for the rubbish reply, I don't have time to edit it down to one sentence