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I do not know how long some of the relationships lasted.... but initially we are not seeing the real picture of "who someone is". With time you might have let some of these women go to.
I do not have an easy time myself, I have let go or have had other's let me go.. it hurts.
What I have learned is try to stay in the "here and now". Enjoy your time at the time and do not worry about past or what might happen tomorrow. You can have some great experiences without worrying about rejection.
Try to be open and relax to begin with. You might have had a good experience even though you might not be right for each other in the long run.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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