terri I was in your shoes a few years ago. I married a wonderful man. he was my entire life. he wanted for nothing at all. He told me before we got engaged that he was a recovering alcoholic. the man I knew, I knew there was no way he was a drunk. WRONG!! it took about 3 yrs for me to see that side of him. I stayed for a few more years. 7 to be exact. It was taking all I had to just live. do they stop? sometimes. I loved him with all my heart and it took everything I had left in me to finally leave. I think you are doing the right thing. he has 2 addictions at least right? for your sake stay away.