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Originally Posted by Killian Hook
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What do I do, since I can't make any amends to my friend? I am not so much obsessed with this person, but setting things to rights HAS become an obsession, which I can't do anything about because communication is impossible.
Any ideas?
Thanks
Killian
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Hi Killian,
I do have an idea about this. I think that this is the giant sneaky trick of depression at work. Obsessing about this person is a problem, but it is a problem that, by it's nature, hides the underlying cause. I think that you have an underlying problem that doesn't have anything to do with the person you are obsessing about or what you did wrong or whether your feelings are justified or even whether your perceptions are correct. Have a look an see if this makes sense to you
http://egg.bu.edu/~youssef/SNAP_CLUB...0164151576.pdf
- vital