You should try and seek marriage counseling if this is a rather common occurrence.. Me and my wife did for three years. We still see a couple that counsels every so often... A big help was me getting stable on meds.. We didn't have sex (not my choice for 19 months). So yes it's taken a long time and it felt like an eternity but it's been worth it. We also have 3 kids I know it can be hectic and throw in a bad marriage and you feel like your life just sucks.. I know... I had a lot to do with our problems but she's also learned things as well... If it weren't for marriage counseling I'm positive we would of divorced. We also separated for 3 months during all this... The bipolar scared her to death and I wasn't my best when I went through a bad spell and ended hospitalized... Anyway... Pm me if you feel the need. Hope the best for ya

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