I'm sorry you've been abandoned. .
I do feel that she was (trying to be) kind and respectful in her message, at least she wasn't trying to be cruel
Although I totally get why you were hurt, you didn't deserve to be abandoned (and out of the blue like that! I too know how that feels )
(if there is any negative gossip and if anyone believes that, idk, except that I would hope most have the sense and "maturity" not to feed into any crap like that ) I haven't read all the thread yet but wanted to let you know I care