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Old Jun 22, 2015, 09:14 PM
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Thank-you for all of the replies. I really appreciate it!

The more time passes, the angier I am becoming at my sister for the way she talked (or didn't talk) to me on Saturday. She said she was too busy with her (amazing) boyfriend to talk to me, but she would call me later. She never did. In fact, I tried calling her again but she didn't answer and didn't call back. She is supposed to visit me in 2 weeks, and I'm starting to feel like I don't want her to come. If she can't be bothered to take 10 minutes out of her day to talk to me after I've been assaulted-- when I've spent her whole life supporting her emotionally and protecting her from abuse (as kids, I took it so she didn't have to)-- then why would I want to spend time with her? To hear more about how happy she is with her boyfriend? To have to put my feelings on hold, again, so I can hear more about her life (while I feel like I'm dying inside)? A year and a half ago, I tried talking to her about the fact that I support her but she doesn't apuiort me in return, and it was useless. She just yelled at me and told me she had a lot going on in her life (she was juggling 2boyfriends). What should I do? I'm so angry with her, and it's making it harder for me to get past this.

I will talk to my T at my appointment this week; I'm just looking for some thoughts before I can see her.
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