HE CALLED!!!!! It was just what i needed. He said that yes the letter did souund agrier than session and he was more bland b/c he didn't feel it said anything different than in session... while i has waited all weekend for a response. He reassured me several times that we are fine, more than fine. He thought last session was the most productive we've had. He said that until i learn better skills that calling for reassurance was a goog thing to do. He said he felt we needed to balance the two approaches. i told him i trust him more with that now.

this will be ok now. i can rest easy until monday.... poor guy stayed late to call me.