he found e,mails on my yah00 account which i just opened and just had tymber, cajun hevyg116 and hyung from another site i joined then deleted cos it was dodgy. hevy was going through same probs as me in his marriage and i did make some comments that , if the other way round i would have been mad about.. i also wrote him a poem, as i do, as you all know, saying i missed him that particular night, asked him for a cyber hug cos i felt crap, as i do with all of you and sent that little icon picture saying it's hard when your miles away but cant hug in real life. i suppose it looks bad, and if it was the other way around i would be livid too. a few other comments were made purely throw away and looked bad,but i've known this guy 5 mins. he sent pics of his family and he saw my pics on here. all blown up out of proportion.
i hope you all take care and thanks for your support.

love, jinny xoxoxoxo