My husband and I have been looking for a woman to enter into our bedroom for some fun. We met a nice girl on an online community we participate in and we've had her over to our apartment several times now for coffee and a movie. It was discussed initially that sexual contact could be not he table if it felt right. Much like you she and I hit it off immediately. We have a lot of similar interests and have a lot of fun talking and hanging out with one another.

The possibility of a threesome has yet to come up in person. That sexual spark just isn't there even though we are great as friends, and that's ok. I would say if you feel that chemistry I would as her when you too ur to dinner. If she feels the same, that's awesome. If not, then you've gained a friend to have fun with in other ways.