Judaism teaches that G-d will keep putting you in the same situations over and over again until you learn your lesson. It's for this reason and this reason only that I believe I NEED to know what I was supposed to have learned from every test I'm given from G-d so I can keep moving forward in my life. This is just my belief and how I was raised, and I've seen it happen in my life first hand.

I'm not asking for G-d to tell me why, but I do need Him to give me clues to the lessons He wants me to learn from them. I've tried figuring it out myself, but have just found myself repeating situations, which means to me that I didn't learn the lesson He wanted me to learn.