Yup! It's like a huge lightbulb just went off. I've now realized that with all the people from that group I've hung out with for 10 years. None of them are real friends so I'm going to start distancing myself from all of them. I now see they all only liked me as long as I was behaving exactly like they wanted. Last week I reconnected with two other friends who are true friends that I hadn't seen in a long time and am going to try and meet some new single friends just to have people to see movies with now and then, since my other friends are all married.