never respect your thoughts,even your thoughts are for their good.when they found out,they yell at you for not telling them and all crappy reasons.the reasons are their yell and their threat(like cut the life supply or send you to asylum).....just the suprem thought,if you have an idea that they don't have,even on the most small life things, they not happy,and you get busted on trivia things for it.they may lose comfort and money and even health by rejecting the idea,but they feel good.....