Thank you for saying this...it's so easy and convenient for him to put all the blame on me since I am the one with diagnosed mental illness. It does take two, but everything is put on me. He does not attend therapy. I offer him resources to better understand my MI, which I think is essential to the relationship, but he doesn't do much research on his own.

I will be seeing a new therapist this week, and will find out about couples counseling. I'm just not ready to give up on my family when there's still steps that can be taken. I think he is willing to try and make it work, but he is at the end of his rope with me