Looks like she's had 3 years and therapy to help her decide what to do with the cats.


I agree that she probably does feel terrible for choosing to give them up and subsequently took it out on you because you're the one who brought it up.


As much as I really love my cat, I doubt I would choose him over a lifetime with my bf.


Who knows, maybe they came to a point where "I'll only give up my cats if a lifetime commitment is on the table" in their relationship, and that is what you're witnessing now.


Doesn't mean it was an overnight thing, they've had three years and therapy to hash this out.