I have felt that way and it sucks. I have felt it from both a Pdoc and therapist. It's very important for me to be comfortable with the people who are treating me. So, if I feel uncomfortable and judged I usually try to find another doctor/therapist. After all, I am paying them so I should be treated with respect and professionalism. I don't tolerate bad Pdocs/therapist. Over the years, I have had many docs and have only had a problem with a few of them. There are a lot of good people out there- sometimes it is just hard to find them.