Honestly I strongly advice not to give other people's opinions about their relationship unless they ask. Whatever is happening between the two people we can't really know. People change their minds and in fact she could change her mind again. I would not even advice my own daughter ( unless she told me she was being abused) let alone a friend.

I know you didn't really advice but by expressing your opinion it maybe did sound like a bit of a judgement to her. Unless she asked what you think.

She probably already struggle with her decision. I know it is a hard choice but if the person is right for you you have to decide. You can't be married to a cat no matter how much you love it. It isn't like she choose a man over cats and she only net him s month ago. After that many years she maybe thinks he is worth it.

I don't know about furniture. I wouldn't assume that's why people get together. relationships are very tricky



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