Yes, she obviously did take it that way since she yelled at me and hasn't written back even after I told her I wasn't judging her. She's great at dishing out the advice in the meanest ways when I've never asked for it. I'm realizing now maybe I should have been mean and nasty right back all those times when she acted superior to me.

She's just another one of those "friends" I'm now realizing was never good for me. That's probably why I'm not upset about it. Just surprised at how she's acting now that the shoe is on the other foot.

No, the furniture isn't why they're together, it's the final excuse she used for not keeping the cats even though they had bought that furniture months ago.

I honestly don't even care what she does with her cats. This is more about her treating me like I can't ask a question after putting up with her nasty judgments about me for years.