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Originally Posted by ruh roh
I guess I reacted the way I did because you're a minor and I see your parents as the adults; but I agree that asking for ways to cope is a good thing for you to do. I just didn't think you should bear the burden of all this. Your mother's comments, if those are verbatim, are concerning...but yeah, figuring out how to cope is key.
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I don't mind the comments, as many times we are both in a very angry situation. It's not like something she would casually say to me. Sometimes the kids have to be the adults. That is another issue I would like to ask about. Although I am still very young, 13, many people treat me as though I am an adult. This has only started recently. I do look much much older than I really am, but I do not feel emotionally 16 or 18 but instead 12 or 13. Does this make sense? I feel the rigorous adult social standards seeping into my world of lawlessness. Is this part of growing up?