Bill3, if you saw my last post you'll see this has nothing to do with whether or not I gave her advice or not. It has to do with her being judgmental, self absorbed and manipulative. She's given me advice I never asked for and has been very nasty and judgmental to me for years and never once said she was sorry. I didn't even give advice or an opinion in this situation. I was just having the normal reaction any of her other friends would have had and I got yelled at. This is about someone who thinks she's entitled to tell me how to live my life, yet can't accept one remark from me.