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Originally Posted by rr13
Bill3, if you saw my last post you'll see this has nothing to do with whether or not I gave her advice or not. It has to do with her being judgmental, self absorbed and manipulative. She's given me advice I never asked for and has been very nasty and judgmental to me for years and never once said she was sorry. I didn't even give advice or an opinion in this situation. I was just having the normal reaction any of her other friends would have had and I got yelled at. This is about someone who thinks she's entitled to tell me how to live my life, yet can't accept one remark from me.
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Well to all honesty you started this thread by saying you made avcomment about her relationship and she got upset.
Only after it was pointed that you perhaps should not comment about other people's relationships, it turns out the entire thread is about something thing else. About how she is nasty and judgemental. It wasn't how the thread started. We have no ways of knowing how she is.
First of all it is hard to comprehend why and how you are referring to someone who had been "nasty and judgmental" to you for years as a friend. It seems strange. Why have such friends? It is shocking to me.
Second of all you might want to become more selective. I am almost 50 and lived on two different continents. Went to two universities. Worked many jobs. Work two jobs now. Met and keep meeting a lot of people and I barely can think of a very few truly nasty people. Certainly none would ever ever be my friends! How do you find and stay with them? How long does it take to know that they are nasty? Not years!
What's your definition of friendship?
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