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That we TEACH people how they can TREAT us.


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I can "guarantee" anyone that I did not teach my son to be disrespectful to me. But I can say that when my son was in counseling, is when he starting acting out his anger towards me. The counselor pretty much said that those close to us will vent their anger because they know we will never leave them. I don't know how true that is, but the counselor pretty much did not think it was an issue. He was a quack and I was too stupid at the time to recognize it.

I think the only person in the mental health field that had any sense at that time was the psychiatrist I took my son to have him taken Zoloft. He was straight forward and rather shocked at my son's attitude towards me. He even said my son never needed Zoloft. My son was l3 at the time. Anyway, I am positive things would have never gotten so out of hand had I had my son continue seeing the psychiatrist. Problem was, the psychiatrist was $200 an hour. I could not afford his fee, so I stayed with the counselor @ $45 an hr. Guess you get what you pay for. I know I paid dearly for wasting my time and my son's time in therapy with a certified quack.

I have to admit I am rather appalled with the comment that we teach people how to treat us. That we deserve to be treated poorly because that is how we teach or expect people to treat us. Am looking for the BS icon and couldn't find it, but looks like I said it without needing the icon.

uhoh.. I am sure this will be edited. I am not being rude. I am stating a fact. The fact being, I have never taught anyone or expected anyone to verbally abuse me, or mistreat me in any way.