Thanks for your quick reply! I thought about couple counceling, but honestly find it kind of wheared to do it. Because, is'nt that something for couples who are already married? Does'nt it look stupid that we do counceling BEFOR we are even married??
The book is a very good idea, and if you have any suggestions for me, i really appreciate it.
Because we are getting married in a catholic church, they want us to to a "focus", which is pretty much a questionary with about 170 questions about you and your future spouse. We both had to fill this out in seperate rooms and in about two weeks, we should get the answer of that. I am looking forward to this opportunity to talk to somebody outside our relationship and might help us.