I did share the positive things with T. First, I thought it was because I just liked to share because he was important to me, but I have to be honest with myself and say that it was a transference thing. I wanted to hear him say he was proud of me. A lot.

Also, sharing was a learning process for me. After I learned to open up to my T and I'd get supportive responses, I dared opening up to others.

Sometimes I just shared to keep a session light.