Your husband sounds like an asshole.


I don't mean to sound like a b!tch but If he does leave, he'd be doing you a favor, even if it doesn't feel like it.


Marriage is a partnership, a team effort, and he clearly has not been acting like a team member, he's clearly not "for better or worse" material, he's only good when its good.


YOU deserve SO MUCH BETTER!:




I know your heart must be feeling like its been shattered into a zillion pieces, but do your baby a favor, harness that pain into energy to create a good setup for the two of you. Regardless of what hubs decides because as I said, he's clearly not interested in an actual marriage.


Sounds like he just liked the idea of marriage, or thought it was the next logical step. Idk


Do what's best and healthiest for you and the little, that's all you can do at this point.


I was also 3 months pregnant and alone, different circumstances but it still hurt like hell and I was only 19 at the time. But you know what? My mindset played a large role in how my pregnancy played out. I was so determined to enjoy it and make a good life for my baby, that I actually pulled it off. I was even hypomanic thru most of it, which was awesome.


You deserve better than what your husband brings to the table. Don't forget that when he threatens to take it off the table.


Sometimes a clean table is the best table, especially if it was just cluttered with useless stuff instead of yummy food!