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Originally Posted by RichardBrooks
Ever hear the saying, "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results?" If each and every time you touch a hot stove, you get burned, you will eventually stop touching the stove. You'll walk wide circles around that stove to make sure you don't touch it. In my case, the stove has the ability to disguise itself as something innocuous and to promise me it's not a stove so it's okay to touch it. I hesitate, then I let my guard down and reach out and get burned again.
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The only common denominator in your situations is you. Each woman is different, so they are not the same hot stove that you keep burning yourself on. One might be a stove, one might be a camp fire, one might be a candle, one might be a ligther, one might be a welding torch, one might be a wood stove, etc etc etc.
What have you tried to do differently? It doesn't mean change who you are. But you may have some behaviours that could be changed.
You seem hostile and angry, along with generalizing people. Perhaps that comes across the longer someone knows you. I certainly won't stay in contact with someone who has such a negative view on others; and it usually comes across without them saying anything directly.
Is there a chance that women you meet don't actually want to have a relationship with you, from the start, and perhaps just want to be friends? I have no real guess on this because your interactions with them are described vaguely. But perhaps you're missing what their intentions are from the start.